The holidays can be a high-pressure time. It may also be especially stressful for your gender-diverse child or family member to navigate gendered traditions and family dynamics. Here are some things to consider:

Do some planning ahead of time.

Talking to your gender-diverse child or family member about their boundaries and communicating with extended family members can set you up for a low-stress gathering.

Set time for some check-ins.

Whether it’s checking in with yourself, your child or family member, or your other relatives during and after the holiday event, communication squashes chances for misunderstandings.


For more details on how to navigate the holidays with your gender-diverse child or family member, check out the full resource below.

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